Therapy for Children

 

We offer our secure teleplay online therapy via secure video conference calls (telehealth or telemental health). We are finding teleplay therapy to work exceptionally well, probably because children adapt quickly to online interaction.

Children and COVID-19

Help for parents and counseling support for children during COVID-19 with online therapy via secure video-conferencing calls at TheraThrive in Lafayette,CAAre you struggling with managing your child’s intensities or energy at home? Or, are you wondering how to support your intense, highly sensitive, and/or gifted child during COVID-19? COVID-19 has changed your daily life drastically, and its impact on your child (or children) may be even more challenging.

Since COVID-19, your child is probably not attending school physically, and might be transitioning to getting more comfortable with remote learning. Your child may feel isolated and alone due to a decrease in interactions with friends and family.

Is your child acting -out with negative behaviors, and deep down you know that the real struggle is with sadness and fear? We understand children and know how to support them and their needs. 

Maybe your child is saying that it’s okay, or everything is fine, when you can tell that they are scared to let others know how they really feel. Perhaps your child wants everyone to think that they are good and a strong kid who can handle this all.

It’s okay for children to struggle right now, as long as they are being supported and modeled how to take care of themselves and their feelings–this is when we come in. We are here to help parents and children manage this time and all they may be going through.

Online Therapy is a way that we can help. Children adapt quickly to online interaction and respond really well to online therapy video conferencing.

Please contact us. We would be happy to answer any questions you may have.  You can also request an appointment to get started. We even offer single-session drop-in appointments.

Does Your Child:

  • Worry too much?
  • Appear sad all the time?
  • Have frequent tantrums or angry outbursts?
  • Struggle with emotional reactivity?
  • Seem gifted?
  • Display high sensitivity?
  • Have trouble listening or paying attention?
  • Fight with you or have behavioral problems?
  • Get bullied, or bully other children?

If you answered yes to any of these, we offer hope. 

We Offer Hope and Understanding

With intensive training in child and family mental health, and with a specialty in childhood and developmental disorders, we are skilled at working with very young children, and severely mentally ill children and teens, as well as their parents and families.

Children, and yes, even angry teens, typically look forward to counseling because it can be spontaneous and engaging. Kids who are suffering need help and relief. Kids typically respond swiftly to counseling because they are developmentally prepared for change. Through active therapy that can involve play, sand tray, art, or music, children and teens process their emotions, learn to identify and express their feelings in healthy and safe ways, and gain positive skills to help them cope with their personal challenges.
Children usually express their problems very differently than adults. This can include social problems, school challenges, worry or depression. For example, when worried or depressed, a child may appear moody, irritable, withdrawn, or manipulative, or possibly pick fights, have frequent tantrums or angry outbursts. Children are naturally intuitive, and often sense others’ emotional states. Children who are challenged beyond their ability to cope can more easily become stressed, depressed, overwhelmed, or frustrated. Transitions or changes in routine can also trigger excessive worry or acting-out behavior.

Counseling for Gifted Children

Gifted, highly sensitive, and/or 2e children may particularly benefit from specialized counseling support because they are often misunderstood or misdiagnosed. In addition, research shows that more gifted individuals may develop anxiety or depression symptoms than the typical population. At TheraThrive, we understand the particular traits and intensities common to gifted and/or highly sensitive children, and we are here to help!

Change Happens

Kids can learn to identify and manage their emotions, reactivity or attitude. Children do develop new ways to focus or pay better attention at school or at home—and the benefits to these changes are life-long. Children and teens are usually naturally intuitive and pick up on what is going on around them, including discord in the home or elsewhere.  Children who are in a transition or who are challenged in ways beyond their ability to cope can easily become stressed, depressed, overwhelmed, or frustrated.

Many gifted children are verbally gifted like Andrew in this video, however the type of emotional tools and support they will most likely benefit from will correspond to their emotional development, not just their intellectual development.

Specialization

We specialize in parenting support and treatment of childhood and developmental disorders, such as:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression, including existential depression
  • High sensitivity
  • Gifted and asynchronous development
  • Sensory processing disorder/dysfunction
  • ADHD/ADD
  • Behavioral issues
  • Grief/loss

We Offer Experience

Our clinical director, Dr. Grace Malonai, has been providing therapy services to children and their families since 1998, has conducted Research on the gifted population, has presented at national and international conferences on issues pertaining to giftedness, and has taught college and graduate level courses in human development and family relationships since 2003. Each therapist at TheraThrive has been trained in gifted matters, and offers particular strengths to the team. Call us for a free phone consultation—we would love to hear from you!

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How Child Therapy Works
First, during a phone call, we will assess the situation to determine if the first meeting would best be with parent(s) and child, just parents, or a split meeting (where half is for parents and half is just with the child). When we meet, we will also want information about the problems, learn developmental history, other history, strengths, and also explore what you have already tried. These things will help us as we work as a team to create a plan to help your child get through those challenges.
Teleplay online play therapy

Online play therapy (sometimes called teleplay) is pretty much the same as play therapy that occurs in the office, except that it is done online via secure video conferencing. Online play therapy utilizes play therapy techniques, art therapy, music therapy and other types of child oriented counseling tools. Research shows that the benefits to online therapy match the benefits of in-office therapy.

Play Therapy Supplies for Online Counseling Sessions

Some online play therapy may benefit from having certain supplies on hand, such as crayons, markers, paper, games, or other materials. Your child’s therapist will contact you before your child’s online counseling session if any supplies are needed. Your therapist may send you handouts, stories, or worksheets in PDF or JPG format, or possibly even deliver supplies to your home.

Role of Parents (or Guardians)
Although we work with your child individually, parents are encouraged and expected to participate in the therapy work, in order to maximize the benefits of counseling and so that your child can practice and utilize skills at home. Depending upon your child’s needs and development, parent participant might be via:

  • Brief check-ins
  • Monthly family meetings
  • Parent consultation meetings
Play Therapy
Play therapy is as diverse as it is fun. It is an important part of our practice, and can be essential when working with children. It can involve games, toys, puppets, cars, costumes, crafts, or even physical movement (such as sword play, dance or catching lizards). Play therapy is a way to help clients, especially children, achieve optimal mental health. Even gifted children (and adults) who have strong verbal skills can benefit from play therapy, which provides an alternative means to process emotions, challenges, and what is going on in their lives. Play therapy has been shown to improve social, emotional, behavioral and other mental health issues. Not just for children, we also have therapeutic games and crafts geared specifically for teens and adults. Play therapy can help clients resolve conflict, solve challenges, and learn positive preventative coping skills. For further information, please view this short video, which explains how play therapy works.

Art Therapy
Many of our clients really like doing art projects. More than a fun and entertaining way for children to learn therapeutic skills, art therapy can be part of a deep healing process for people of all ages. It can also provide an enjoyable way to practice positive coping skills, as well as providing space for for creativity and personal reflection. Child, teen and adult clients can make meaning of their lives via art projects, improve self-esteem, find strengths, and become more self-aware. Creating art can also bring about profound insight and understanding of relationships, coping, responses to stress and trauma.
Sandplay (Sand Tray Therapy)
Sandplay is the process of arranging small figurines and representational objects in therapy sand that represent an inner state of being. Therapy sand has the properties of both wet and dry sand, so it can be light and sandy or molded and sculpted. Sandplay is a powerful therapeutic technique in that it can change how clients view themselves within their world, and bring their inner world out, to an expressive world. It also gives space for deep healing, processing and discovering new outcomes. Sandplay is especially helpful because it can be a non-verbal way to communicate when verbal communication is difficult or does not feel right. We utilize a complete sandplay set-up at our office, and children, teen and adult clients are all welcome to sandplay. To start sandplay, we ask clients to choose figurines to place in the sand. Clients typically shape or mold the sand before placing the figurines. Molding play sand can feel really good—it allows for expression of emotion, plus the texture of the sand on the hands can be calming and relaxing. When choosing figurines, clients pick whichever they are most drawn to, even if there is no obvious reason for making those choices. It is actually very easy to get into the process of building a sandtray world. It is an inner experience of creativity, guided by the subconscious.  Also, it is okay not to know the meaning of the scene that is created. The strength of sandtray work is that it is healing and powerful, even if the outcome is not explicit.